The line above, a parody of a line first uttered by Bette Davis in the movie “All About Eve,” is as appropriate to today’s world as it was to her character’s situation in the movie.
All you need to do is pickup a newspaper or turn on the television news to know that we are living through some turbulent times. Each day the media bombards us with more news riddled with fear and uncertainty. Each day we hear of dangers to our safety or about the latest job cutbacks. It’s almost as if they are trying to convince us that there are tough times ahead.
I’m not going to go into why anyone would want to continue to broadcast negative messages, I’ll leave that for someone else to figure out. Whether there is a threat to our safety, economic recession, or some other circumstance beyond our control, how you are affected by the current circumstances is totally a matter of what you choose to believe and the way you choose to react or not react to the news.
If, for example, you believe that your security and income are the responsibility of the government or your company, you may be in for a difficult time. If, on the other hand, you realize that everything in your life comes from your Creator, you’ll get through this just fine.
In times like these, it’s more important than ever to develop a strong, spiritual connection, whether it’s through your church, prayer group, or simply from your own time spent praying and meditating.
People who are firmly grounded and have a deep spiritual connection are able to handle whatever life sends their way. Those who do not have this relationship with a power greater them themselves, can be devastated by life’s events.
There are some things you can do to help you “weather the storm” should it come your way. For openers, stop reading newspapers and listening to the news. By doing this you will immediately eliminate a major amount of negativity from your life.
Don’t let yourself get sucked into negative, unproductive conversations about the economy. I made this mistake several years ago and almost lost everything. Only when I stopped buying into the problem did my life begin to change.
Devote some time each day, preferably in the morning, to think about what you want in your life. Begin to see your life the way you want it to be. Focus on what you want, and give no energy to that which you do not want to appear. Your thoughts and words have power. Use them carefully.
If you belong to a church, or other spiritual group, stay closely connected to them. Above all, realize that the source that provides the very air you breathe is the same source that will provide everything else you need.
Are you going to be another statistic?
It’s a sad fact that by Valentine’s Day, February 14th, more than 95% of people will have made no progress on the dreams they had at the beginning of the year.
We start out on January 1 with the best of intentions. “This will be my year,” we tell ourselves. “This is the year I – start my new business, write my book, find that perfect someone, get in shape,” we proudly proclaim to anyone who’ll listen.
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Action produces results
Congratulations to all the people who ordered the “20 Ways to Make $100 a Day Online” ebook. I honestly hope you are using the ideas in it. I know I am and it’s making a difference. Please don’t be one of those people who buys a program and never uses it. All you have to do is take a little time, go through the 20 ways and pick one to act upon. Yes, it can be that simple.
If you’ve read any of the law of attraction books or watched the movie, The Secret, you’ve probably heard that the first step in attracting what you want is to identify what you do not want. As strange as this may sound, it’s usually pretty easy for most people. We’re conditioned to look at what we don’t want so identifying them is simple.
If you’ve completed the “Tolerations” activity previously, you’ll find this to be similar. If not, please go back and do that as well as the activity about “Appreciation.” They’ll help you gain momentum for what’s to come.
Take a sheet of paper and list everything you do not want in your life. Your list may run the gamut from not wanting to be broke, to not wanting to feel lousy all the time, to not wanting to date jerks. Take a good look at each area of your life – spiritual, mental, physical, social, career and finance, and decide what it is you do not want in relation to this part of your life experience.
Doing this is the easiest way to begin to identify what it is you do want, for it is usually the exact opposite. For example, if what you don’t want is an old car that breaks down all the time, it stands to reason that what you do want is a nice, clean, reliable automobile.
If, on your “don’t want” list you’ve written something like, “I don’t want to feel lousy and be fat” (something a lot of us can relate to this time of year), on your “do want” list, you might write “to be thin, fit, healthy and filled with energy.”
Later you’ll want to use this list as the basis for your new goals program and daily affirmations.
What else do you want? If you really dig deep into what will leave you feeling fulfilled and happy, you will uncover all sorts of things you may have forgotten about.
When making your “do want” list, think about what you want to be, do, have and share. If you want a real challenge, do the “101 wishes” exercise from Jack Canfield and Mark Victor Hansen’s wonderful book, The Alladin Factor. This is something my wife, Georgia, tried and had trouble getting past 40.
I can tell you from personal experience that doing this will really stretch you and is well worth taking the time to complete. By the time you’ve passed the initial 20 or 30 things, you’ll be getting back in touch with many dreams you probably forgot you even had.
Speaking of dreams, so many of us start out the year with a bang but then, sometimes in less than a month, find ourselves caught up in our day to day life.
One of the things that made all the difference for me was having a system to follow and a support group to keep me on track. If you’re one of those people who would really like to make 2009 a banner year, take a close look at my new Destiny 2009 mentoring program. Even if you saw this earlier, I’ve made a lot of changes, so please take another look.
Would you like to add $100 a day in 2009?
A lot of people this time of year are thinking about their finances. One of the best ideas I’ve learned over the years is to have more than one income stream. I make a habit of adding at least one income stream each year. Doing this is easier than you might think, especially with the Internet and if you have a tried and true system to follow. This will show you not one but 20 different ways you can earn more money or even, as in my case, improve upon something you’re already doing.
Georgia and I have used ebay.com, on and off, as a way to create some fast cash since 1999 and, as I’ve said over and over, I believe it’s something everyone can do whenever they want some extra money.
And, of course, you can do it as a full time business if that’s what you’re looking for.
Take a minute and watch this a short video, taken from one of my live seminar’s and learn some of my simple tips for making money on ebay.