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I recently received an email from a man in Africa, asking for my advice on how he can change his life.

In thinking about his situation I realized that, no matter where you are – Africa, New York, London, Tokyo, or anywhere else, it’s the same process.

You can’t keep telling the same story and expect conditions to change. If you want to improve conditions in your life, you must begin telling yourself a new story.

The most important thing you can do is stop talking about the problems.

Yes, conditions are difficult in many parts of the world however continuing to talk about them and feeling victimized does nothing more than give energy to the problem.

Whether you’re trying to earn enough to feed your family, start your business or, as is the case in the United States government, create jobs, the law of attraction is always at work.

No matter who’s in office, if they continue to focus on the problem, they will continue to perpetuate the condition. This is one of the reason governments everywhere in the world are ineffective in changing conditions.

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All teachings teach something similar to the Bible statement that, “As a man thinketh in his heart, so is he.”

We attract what we think about. Period. It’s non negotiable.

You cannot keep saying things like, “I don’t want to be struggling all the time” and expect it to magically change.

We must all learn to change the conversation from what we do not want to what we do. You must begin writing a new story about your life, literally. Start talking to yourself about how your life is getting better and better each day.

Learn to focus your attention on what it is you do have, what you are thankful for- however little that may be- and what is going right in your life.

Spend some time each day, in your mind, seeing the life you want to be living. Feel it with all your senses.

If it’s a job you want, begin by imagining yourself working in your ideal career, enjoying your work and feeling appreciated. Of course, don’t stop there. We have an active role to play in our lives so, after you invest time seeing the life you want, get up and do something to move toward it, however small it may seem at the moment.

If you want to start or grow a business, instead of looking at obstacles, however true they may seem, start looking for ways you can provide service.

When you find ways to serve: your community, your fellow man, and the world at large, you will begin to see ways in which you can earn money.

It’s never the other way around.

I know of no one who is successful who began by looking for ways to make money. Financial abundance is always the result of doing something that provides value in the world.

Begin now writing the story of your new life. Write it down, act it out, see it, feel it and start moving toward it.

As the title of one of my books reminds us, “This is Your Life, Not a Dress rehearsal.”

 

I was picking up our Persian cat Frosty from the Pet Groomer the other day when I witnessed a scene that made my heart ache.

Our groomer is co-located in a Veterinary office building and, while I was waiting for Frosty to come out, all trimmed and pretty, I could not help but overhear a man explaining to the Vet how he was unable to pay the bill for his cat. All the while, his small daughter stood by taking all this in.

The man explained how he was not debating the charges and how he really appreciated the good work the Doctor did and how he had been coming there for years and planned to continue but that, right now, he had no money and was unable to pay the bill. He promised to come back and settle as soon as he could.

Fortunately for the man, his daughter and the family cat, the Vet is a kind, understanding person.

Seeing this scene unfold touched me deeply and left me feeling both sad for the man’s troubles and angry that a loving father would have to endure this embarrassing experience in front of his small child.

Maybe it stirred up memories of my own childhood, one in which I experienced similar situations where we were not able to pay what was owed. Or maybe it was from when, as an adult, I had to face similar embarrassing moments.

Whatever the reason, I know it bothers me so much because scenes like this are taking place all over America right now and it’s wrong! They should not occur, especially in one of the wealthiest countries in the world, but they do.

Honest, hardworking Americans are being defeated, demoralized, and depressed by their daily struggle to stay ahead of rising costs. And they are happening with more and more frequency each day.

This must change and the collective “we” must change it. The government is not going to fix the problem. They never have before. Waiting for Washington to do something about the economic mess we’re in will do little more than prolong the pain. Yes, there are things our elected officials can do but they’re not doing them.

The buck (pun intentional) stops here. It’s up to you and I to fix it.

We have the power, each and every one of us, including the man with the cat, to change our financial condition but in order to do so we mush change the conversation we’ve been having about it.

We – you, me and especially the media – must begin talking about possibility and opportunity.Since it is an absolute law of the Universe that, as Emerson said, “A man is what he thinks about all day long,” we must put our attention on abundance and well being.

The media, who up until now has been having a field day reporting about how bad things are, and as a result contributing to the problem, must change their message and start reporting about what is working. They need to start covering the stories of success and prosperity. There are just as many, if not more, of them than the other.

We must wake up to the opportunities that surround us. Then, and only then, will we begin to see the abundance that has always been there.

Money, abundance and well being all come from our Creator as does everything else in our world and there is not, nor has there ever been a lack of anything. If you doubt that, just look around at your world. We are surrounded by God’s abundance.

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Listening to the reports about what’s presently going on in the economy I’m reminded of a time, a number of years ago, when we were going through what many people are going through now.

The end of the month was approaching and we were experiencing a cash flow challenge. It was, in all honesty, one of the greatest tests of faith I had experienced in a very long time.

Interestingly enough, I stayed positive throughout, knowing somehow that it would all work out for the best.

During the last week or two of the month my resolve was tested several times.

Using everything I have learned about the law of attraction, and staying focused on what I wanted, I managed to stay “locked on,” to borrow a phrase from Lynn Graybhorn, author, Excuse Me, Your Life is Waiting.

The tricky part and where I believe many people get tripped up, is holding your attention on what you want, while ignoring the “reality” of what is.

Visualizing what you desire while being careful not to notice what has not yet happened.

 Let me explain.

When facing challenging times, a drop-off in revenue for example, most people devote a lot of time and energy noticing the lack of business.

This is generally the opposite of what they want. What they want is lots of business.

The law of attraction, a universal law as valid as any other law, like gravity, tells us essentially “we attract of what we focus on.”

The subtlety here is that if we are noticing the lack of revenue, we will attract that. In other words, we will attract more lack of revenue.

The challenge and I believe the real test of ones faith, is to ignore reality and only look at what we want.

We then let go and trust in the Divine Power, that it will appear in the perfect way in the perfect time. The only way it cannot is if we block it by holding our attention, our power as a co-creator, on less than what we want.

During my recent challenge, I knew deep within my being, at the cellular level, that everything would work out. I went about my business taking appropriate actions, holding my attention on what I wanted, being appreciative for everything I already have (counting my blessings) and yes, ignoring reality.

I know that there people who will say I was crazy or foolish and that we have to “be realistic!” There was a time when I might have tried to convince them I was right. Now all I do is smile for I know better.

A few days before the end of the month, in the middle of a phone call with friend, I went on-line to check my bank balance and see what was happening, to see what checks had cleared and what yet had not cleared. When I looked at the screen I almost feel over, because what I saw there was a very large deposit sitting in my business account.

A small part of me still thought it might be a mistake, but I rejoiced in what could only be described as a miracle. I realized right then and there that all of our positive focus and refusal to accept lack had in fact produced a significant result.

I believe this was a “sign” that our faith was not in vain.

 “What so ever you ask for in prayer, believe you have received it and it will be given unto you.” This quotation from the Bible explains it all.

Activity Step

In your journal complete the steps below.

Step 1 – Know what you DON’T want. Write it down.

Step 2 – Know what you DO want. Write it down.

Then, here’s the “secret“, spend some time each day feeling the feelings that you will experience when you have what you want. See and feel yourself as you would if you already had your desire.

For example, if what you want is more money, you probably don’t want little pieces of paper with numbers on them. You most likely want some feeling associated with having the money. Maybe it’s joy, freedom, security or some other good feeling.

Focus on this feeling and recreate it in your body. Imagine you already have the money and are feeling the feelings it brings. Experience all of the good feelings that will come with your desires.

Give no attention to the fact that you do not yet have it. Ignore reality during this “Feel good” time. Do this simple exercise for a few minutes each day.

 

Before you start running around in circles, frantically trying to get more customers, take a little time to revisit your original vision and get back in touch with why you’re doing what you do in the first place. This is the first and, probably, the most important step in shifting from a recession mind-set to one of abundance and prosperity.

Here’s a short audio recording, excerpt from a live seminar I delivered recently to a group of business owners in Perkasie, PA.

Listen to Growing Your Business in Difficult Times – Part 1

By the way, if you’re part of a group of small businesses and would like to have me deliver a similar talk, at no cost within driving distance of Bucks County, PA, let me know and I’ll see what I can do to accommodate.

In case you missed it, here’s the replay from the July 22nd interview call I did with host, Larry Steinhouse, organizer of the “Get Rich and Happy” event in Philadelphia, November 5, 6, 7th.

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You can see the speaker line-up and learn more about this great event here: